Autistic adults wait years for a therapy spot. If they find one at all that understands autism. In the meantime: no explanation. No framework. Just your own experience without context.
Parents of autistic children face the same vacuum. Their child reacts in ways they can't categorize. Guidebooks say "Every child is different." Therapists are overloaded. Nobody explains the mechanism.
The research that explains autism from the inside exists. Monotropism, Predictive Coding - how your brain constantly makes predictions about the world. The Double Empathy Problem - the mutual misunderstanding between autistic and neurotypical people. This isn't fringe knowledge. But these theories are stuck in academic journals. Monotropism only received a validated questionnaire in 2023. Nobody has ever translated these insights into a form that an autistic person can use at their kitchen table.
On top of that: The entire digital market is focused on children. The average age in studies on digital autism interventions is 10.6 years. Tiimo, Goblin Tools, Brain in Hand - daily life aids, not explanation tools. Autistic adults are practically invisible in the digital product landscape.
Most autism apps fall into two categories. Behavior management tools that teach autistic people to appear more neurotypical. Or parent apps that deliver checklists and ABA-adjacent strategies. This means: behavior modification through conditioning. Both treat autism as a problem to be solved. Not as neurology that can be understood.
The reason: Most autism tools are built by non-autistic people. By people who observed autism from the outside - as therapists, researchers, parents. That perspective produces tools that correct behavior instead of explaining experience. That's the Double Empathy Problem in product form.